Author: Parenting United

Helping your Kids deal with Feelings

The Emotional World of Children Feelings come naturally to everyone. For most young children, the expression of their feelings comes quite instinctively – just think of the toothless grin on a baby’s face when he sees his mother or a toddler crying when he is hurt. Before they reach school-going age, most children would have learnt how to handle emotions through their interactions with adults, especially their parents. Unfortunately, some children learn that feelings are bad or unacceptable and to survive, they suppress or even reject their feelings. “Daddy said crying is weak. If I cry no one will...

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Help! My Child is Being Bullied!

Sarah, 10, had been called names by a group of girls from the same class for the last few days. She wished the name calling would stop but unfortunately, the girls continued to taunt her and got others to shun her as well. Subsequently, Sarah feigned a stomachache to avoid going to school. Mrs. Liu hesitated when considering whether or not to confront the bully in question when her 11-year-old son, Ian, was found to be constantly hit on the head by a classmate who sat behind him. Her husband felt that Ian needed to toughen up and learn...

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Toddlerhood

It feels like only yesterday when you came home from the hospital with your precious baby. You were tired and a bit overwhelmed, yet determined to capture and enjoy those fleeting moments of infancy. Then it happened: in the middle of the night, someone switched your tiny, compliant infant for a much larger and strongly opinionated toddler! Now you realize that your sleepless nights and numerous feedings were a walk in the park compared to this. Who is this little person yearning for independence and leaping from dangerously large structures while gulping down fistfuls of cookies? Don’t worry —...

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Primary School does not dictate a child’s success

The MOE announced this past week: “Citizens to get absolute priority in P1 registration balloting” (Mar 25, 2012). This must spell good news for many parents. According to most parents, a child’s success starts with a good education. Being well paid, well supplied, well known and well received are the standard characteristics of a successful life. While all these aspects do affect a child’s life, there is a real need to redefine “success” for our child and for ourselves. Our child’s future is not solely dependent on which primary school they get enrolled into. Let’s rethink the purpose of...

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Connecting through Positive Assumption

One of the best ways to connect with another person is by injecting a positive assumption into a question or suggestion. When used in conversation, this communication tool makes it much more likely for your child to respond in a way that allows you to understand how your child thinks. To have a positive assumption about something is to assume that something is possible or that it will happen. From his or her response, you are given insight into the values, perceptions, and decision-making processes your child engages in. When he or she does it, be sure not to...

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Marriage – the first step towards becoming a family

All families start at this point – the couple's decision to spend the rest of their lives together. They
say that the first step is always the hardest to take, but we can help you with that. Unsure whether you and your would­ be spouse are ready?

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EXPECTING PARENTS

The dizzying euphoria of expecting a child – suddenly the household is abuzz with excitement. Where do I start? What should I expect? How should I prepare? Who should I look to for help? Like a bolt from the blue, your mind would be flooded with questions about parenting. You can never be fully prepared, but some parents would be better prepared than most.

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INFANTS

Your baby cries, and you don't know what to do. You see rashes on your baby's buttocks, and you panic. When do you start introducing cereals or pureed foods to his diet? He always cries and you do not know why. All these questions can frighten new parents.

However, click here for help when facing doubts over dealing with your newborn.

TODDLERS

Watching your child grow and go through many milestones is often one for the photo albums.

Your child's first steps, your child's first word, your child's first taste of food after weaning. It'salso one you will need to navigate carefully – you have tantrums and picky eating habits tocontend with. Having first time parenting jitters and feeling a little lost?

If you need a bit of support to handle your little toddler, click here to find out more.

YOUNG CHILDREN

This time is often a period of learning for your children, as they begin to learn about the world around them. As parents, it's easy to have expectations and want the best for their child. But when is it too much for your child to handle? How should you ensure that your child gets the best possible start in life? click here and read about how you can guide your children to be happy, eager, and well­balanced kids.

TEENAGERS

Grown up but not quite there yet, teens make the last preparations as they move towards young adulthood, testing and exploring to get a feel of the environment around them. They begin to challenge authority, push limits, and find out more about themselves as a person. At the same time, they begin to become more assertive and independent.

At this point, a parent's role shifts towards that of an advisor or a collaborator, as they guide their young teens. click here to learn tips and tricks to better work with your teen.

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